i apologize if i am not allowed to post stuff like this... i just need to get this off my chest... so mods feel free to delete the post
i am 16m and i have a 3 yr old brother(born 2 months early and has autism)... i am homeschooled and will graduate a yr early and will also be able to graduate college faster/easier cuz of the college courses i did in high school... all my grades are A's btw
my mom is constantly breathing down my neck for when i do do something wrong. but then she just so conveniently isnt looking when i do something good. i am so fucking tired of this bullshit.
like today she was like "i smell smoke i wonder if there is a wild fire nearby" she then checks alexa, the news, and google... no fires nearby. then i say in the most calm voice ever... "there is a fire training like 2 miles away maybe they set a fire to train the trainees, since i have seen them start a controllable fire for training purposes... or maybe someone is bbq-ing" then for no reason she just goes off saying "YOU CAN ASSUME THAT... WHAT IF U ASSUME THAT THEN THERE IS A BLAZZING FIRE OUTSIDE OF YOU DOOR" ... so i just leave her alone cuz if i say somethings she is just gonna keep going... so i go eat my lunch(quietly) then a package that i am excited for comes.... after i eat i put my 1 bowl and spoon in the sink to check my package out... then my mom says in a pissed off tone "wash the dishes k" i said in the most calm voice i can use "ok... i will wash them after open my package" i proceed to open my package then she tells me to do something after i open my packed(still pissed off btw) and i say "ok" ... then when i am done and cleanin up my package she all of a sudden goes off again like yelling at me to wash the dishes... so i just say ok(calmly) and i start to wash the dishes and emptying the dishwasher. then she goes off again how i always have an opinion how i NEVER listen to her then she goes into some personal stuff that im not going to get into. so this is like the millionth time this had happened... and every time i keep my mouth shut and dont bother defending myself. and i just got so tired of that and said in a mildly pissed off(but not blatant pissed off voice) "half the time i give my 'opinion' it just continuing the conversation. because in a conversation i should be allowed to say something" she she continues to go off about me always giving an 'opinion' and she also starts calling me a "smart-ass" so now i am pissed off and i say "at least when i give my opinion i dont yell at you"... thats basically the last thing i say but she keep going... saying i am a bitch, a bum, and a lazy live in... basically implying that i am useless... then proceeds to ask me to babysit my brother for hours
the last part happens almost everyday and the scary thing for me is that i am starting to believe her... and for the past 6 months i have been waking up everyday wishing i didnt... i am so glad to have found my best friends especially taylor(name changed)... she's also my crush and hopefully my future wife... tho i probably dont stand a chance... if it was for her, my other friends, my brother, taylor swift, and God i wouldn't be her rn
but being best friends with taylor is not always easy... she is so perfect.... i am not kidding.... she is 1 yr older than me nd she also graduated hs early... she is the perfect daughter... so basically she is the opposite of me... and since i was like 10 my mom has been comparing me to her and her older sister... tho she wont outright say that she is comparing my but she will say stuff like "yk taylor did this..." ... "Yk taylors older sister did this..." ... "They can do this... how come you cant"... when i was little i got a little mad at her for being so perfect(i never told her this btw)... then the pandemic happened and i realized she has a much better support system than me hence her success... and that anger became pride... pride that she allowed me to be her best friend no matter how useless i am
nobody in my circle knows about this nor do i want to tell them... so i figured to tell random strangers instead
rant over