I'm fine with game management and running down clock or playing hurry-up. I'm fine with a user deliberating over their play calls.
It doesn't take 15 seconds to select Kickoff. It doesn't take 22 seconds to pick every offensive play after an incomplete pass. It doesn't take fifteen additional seconds after an offensive play call to pick every defensive play. Play the game. I have a life to live, and when I have to quit out of a forty-minute long tie game halfway into the third quarter because dinner's ready, I'm going to elect for dinner. But it's a loss I shouldn't have to take.
This is one of the most toxic things I'm seeing lately, and not just to the one traditionally called a 'victim'. Life is short. You might realize when you are 50 that when you were wasting others' time for cheap wins, your life was the one that was getting spent for nothing.