EazyBreezy,
Just a guess on my part. And this is based on nothing more than the posts in this thread.
It looks like you may take some response as criticism. Not sure if they are really trying to help or not. That is something that you will learn to recognize better as you get experience, but it is always hard to tell at first. Being onlinee and not face to face makes that way harder. Then there is the fact that - I assume - you were not allowed to be in school and interacting with others for a year or something due to covid, so you have way less info than you should at you age.
So just to let you know, from my perspective all of these guys are trying to give you advice to help you. We do not know what will or won't. Just what we have seen work in our own lives.
I am just pointing it out in case that is how you felt. It could look to them like they tried to help, and you are being mean or unaccepting of the help they are offering.
So far everyone has been caring enough to offer advice and then come back again to respond to you and clarify that they are not being trolls and try to explain that they may not have been clear enough or you may have taken it the wrong way.
So I say thank you to them for doing that.
They prob have their own kids, a dog, the mortgage, yard work, may own their own business, or just want to be playing madden.
Just letting ya know they are taking time away from other things in the hopes that it helps you.
You are not alone and there are people that will help, don't lose faith.